Discriminated Against All My Life Because Of My ‘Golden Child’ Sister. I Got Revenge
The Ultimate Exposure
The venue had cameras, but they wouldn’t show me the recording as it was only for security purposes. However, some people filmed parts of it.
Watching my parents and sister get torn apart by everyone who came out to see the drama was delightful. After years of being accused of things and not being believed, seeing them get a taste of their own medicine was one of the best wedding gifts.
My mother was crying, my dad kept changing from purple to white, and my sister was still on the floor crying and screaming. They kept insisting that my husband was in on it.
But people kept asking why he would agree, why there was no proof, and why they wanted my sister to do this at my wedding. They had no good answers.
Eventually, they were told to leave and had no choice but to do so. My dad apparently had to drag my sister up as she refused to leave the ground.
Again, people said nothing to me all night. I guess they wanted to spare me and maybe it’s because I was the bride and not just a guest for once, but it did feel like everyone was making an extra effort to be nice, positive, and excited about everything.
My husband says all the expensive food and drinks they were eating certainly helped, LOL. We had a blast.
My husband kept up the forced angry face for only a short while before breaking out in smiles again. After that, we went to the hotel to catch some sleep before heading off on our honeymoon.
Speaking of which, my parents did try to pay for our plane tickets, but we thought that was risky as they could try to cancel them or something, so we refused. Since then, the three of them have tried to contact me.
I’ve refused calls because my husband insisted on keeping a paper trail. This was a smart move because my sister eventually messaged me.
I won’t repeat what she said as it was very unhinged and didn’t make much sense, but the important part was that she blamed me for her humiliation and called my husband a two-faced snake who fooled them for months. He wants to print and hang that on our wall, LOL.
She even hoped but was also certain that I’d get cheated on by him, and she even suggested he was cheating on me with her.
My husband took my phone, screenshotted the call logs, my sister’s messages, and some messages from my parents demanding I pick up the phone, and sent it all to our family group chat.
He also sent screenshots of messages to him where they called him names and threatened him, but he kept up the
“you’re delusional, I never agreed to anything”
shtick and even threatened to sue them for defamation and harassment. He wrote a message in the group chat begging my family for help as I was now being harassed by them constantly.
He pleaded with them to stop my parents and sister from ruining our honeymoon after they failed to ruin our wedding. He ended with a request that they not share our locations to prevent my parents from sending my sister over and claiming he had somehow agreed to pretend to sleep with her in our honeymoon suite, LOL.
My family assured him they’d handle it, and since then we’ve had peace. My husband is a bit disappointed that my sister didn’t disobey so he could call her out again while tearing her a new one.
Understanding the Roots
We’ll see if the peace lasts. All in all, while I would have preferred a normal, loving family at my wedding, at least for once in my life, they not only failed to ruin something meaningful to me, but I got back at them.
Extra info: Do I know why they treat me like this? I’ve been asked this question a lot, so I assume you all will wonder the same.
I’ve pondered this all my life and still don’t know. I tried asking when I was young, but they denied any difference and scolded me for being spoiled, so I stopped trying.
I’ve considered many possibilities, but based on my observations, I think it’s this: I was unplanned. They took a while to have my sister, so she was not only wanted but also like a miracle child after so long.
However, given our small age difference, I think they didn’t expect to have another child so soon or easily and didn’t use adequate protection after my sister’s birth. Maybe they didn’t realize my mom was pregnant until it was too late, so they were saddled with an unplanned baby while still dealing with a newborn.
They’re not well off, so having the extra expense likely didn’t help, and they resented me. But that’s just my conjecture.
Regardless, I’ve accepted that the reason won’t truly matter; what they did to me was unwarranted no matter what. Did they really think this would work?
My husband and I have a theory that they never intended to do this at all. We think my sister threw a tantrum over me getting married first when she barely gets dates, and they made my husband that outlandish proposition.
They didn’t want to pay for my wedding and didn’t think we’d accept, or that it would even look good for them to do it. By suggesting it and being refused, they could look like the good guys to my sister while having an excuse not to give me a dime.
But then my husband accepted it, and they couldn’t backtrack without risking my sister turning on them. Thank you for watching.
