Grandma’s Nurse Faked Her Dementia To Steal Everything, Not Knowing I Still Visited Her
Reclaiming the Past
Lucille started coming over twice a week after that, usually on Tuesday evenings and Saturday afternoons. The first few visits felt awkward because she kept apologizing.
She said she should have believed me from the start and that she failed both Margaret and me. I told her it was okay and that Roger had fooled everyone.
But she’d shake her head and apologize again. Eventually, I sat her down at the kitchen table and explained that she came through when it really mattered.
She got Clifford involved and helped save Margaret’s life. That seemed to help.
After that, she relaxed and started acting more like herself, bringing groceries and helping with dinner. She told stories about when Margaret was younger.
Margaret loved having her sister around again. They’d sit in the living room for hours talking and laughing, making up for all the time Roger had stolen from them.
In March, my college acceptance letters started arriving. I’d check the mailbox every day after school, my stomach tight with nerves.
The first few were rejections which stung, but I’d expected some. Then one Thursday I opened a thick envelope from my top choice school and just stared at the acceptance letter.
I read it three times to make sure it was real. Margaret was in the kitchen when I ran inside and she took one look at my face and started crying happy tears before I even showed her the letter.
She grabbed my hands and told me how proud she was and how I’d worked so hard for this. She insisted on throwing a celebration dinner that weekend, calling Lucille, Clifford, and Bernadette to invite them over.
Saturday night, our dining room felt full and alive for the first time in over a year. Clifford brought champagne and sparkling cider, toasting to my future.
Bernadette gave me a leather journal for college and Lucille made my favorite dessert. Margaret kept getting teary and squeezing my hand.
She said this was what Roger had tried to take from me and he’d failed.
A Future Defined by Strength
The next few months passed in a blur of final exams and graduation preparations. June arrived hot and humid and suddenly I was wearing a cap and gown, lining up with my classmates outside the football field.
I spotted Margaret and Lucille in the bleachers waving and taking pictures. Walking across that stage to get my diploma felt surreal like I was watching someone else’s life.
Everything that happened with Roger felt like a nightmare from another world. But it was also deeply meaningful knowing Margaret was there watching—healthy, clear-minded, and free from Roger’s drugs.
After the ceremony she hugged me so tight I could barely breathe. She told me she loved me and everything was going to be wonderful now.
Around that time Margaret started talking about the scholarship fund she’d been meeting with Clifford about. She thought about what to do with some of the recovered money and she wanted to create something good from what Roger had done.
She established a fund for students who’d experienced family trauma—kids dealing with loss or abuse or situations like ours. She said if her suffering could help even one kid get to college who otherwise couldn’t, then something good would come from Roger’s scheme.
She worked with Clifford to set up the legal structure and chose the first recipients that summer. Summer itself became about reclaiming the house.
Margaret and I went through every room, making lists of what Roger had sold and what we wanted to replace. “Some things were just things,” she said, but others mattered.
We couldn’t get back her mother’s ring or the antique desk, but we could make the space feel safe and ours again. We started with my room, painting the walls a light blue I’d always wanted.
We bought a new bed frame and desk and arranged everything exactly how I liked it. Then we tackled the living room, replacing the couch Roger had sold with one we picked out together.
We bought new curtains and threw out the rug that reminded us of him. Every change made the house feel more like ours and less like a place Roger had contaminated.
Healing Together
Bernadette came by once a month to check on Margaret. The physical exams always came back normal with no lasting effects from the drugs Roger had given her.
The psychological healing was slower. Margaret was working with a therapist twice a week, processing the betrayal and violation of what Roger had done.
Some sessions left her quiet and withdrawn for the rest of the day. Other times she’d come home energized, saying she’d had a breakthrough.
Bernadette said the progress was steady and healthy and that Margaret was doing the hard work of healing. Margaret and I both had hard days when the trauma would surface without warning.
She’d have nightmares about Roger giving her pills and wake up disoriented and scared. I’d have panic attacks when someone stood too close or raised their voice.
We learned to recognize the signs in each other and respond with patience. When Margaret had a bad day, I’d sit with her and remind her where she was—that Roger was in prison and couldn’t hurt her anymore.
When I struggled, she’d make tea and let me talk or just sit quietly until the fear passed. We were closer now than before Roger, bonded by surviving his scheme together.
We understood each other’s triggers and fears in a way most people never would. August came too fast.
Lucille helped me pack for college, sorting through clothes and supplies and making sure I had everything I needed. Moving day arrived on a Saturday and both Lucille and Margaret insisted on coming.
We loaded my stuff into Lucille’s car and made the two-hour drive to campus. My dorm room was tiny—just enough space for a bed, desk, and dresser.
Margaret immediately started arranging things, asking where I wanted my lamp and should the books go on this shelf or that one. She met my roommate, a girl from across the state studying biology, and chatted with her for 20 minutes about classes and campus life.
When it was time for them to leave, Margaret hugged me in the parking lot and made me promise to call if I needed anything, anytime, day or night. The first few weeks were rough, adjusting to classes and living away from home.
But Margaret video called me every Tuesday and Friday evening, asking about my professors and roommate and telling me about her week. I came home most weekends at first, needing the familiar comfort of the house and Margaret’s presence.
Gradually I settled into campus life, making friends and getting involved in activities. We created a new normal that included what happened with Roger but didn’t let it define everything.
We talked about it when we needed to and acknowledged the trauma, but also focused on moving forward. I was thriving at college in ways I hadn’t expected.
My classes challenged me and I loved the independence of managing my own schedule. I’d declared pre-law as my major after talking with an academic adviser.
I wanted to help people in situations like ours—families being manipulated or abused and people who needed someone to believe them and fight for them. When I told Margaret during one of our video calls, she got teary again.
She said Roger had accidentally given me a career calling. She said that I’d take the worst thing that happened to us and use it to help others.
Winter break came and Margaret asked me to sit down at the kitchen table one evening after dinner. She spread out a stack of legal papers in front of me, her reading glasses perched on her nose.
She’d been working with Clifford to completely redo her will and estate planning. She explained, pointing to different sections with her finger.
She named Lucille and me as co-trustees, which meant we’d both have equal say in managing her affairs if anything ever happened. No single person could take control again.
She also established something called a living will that spelled out exactly what medical care she wanted and didn’t want, with copies filed at her doctor’s office and the hospital. If she ever got sick or couldn’t make decisions, doctors would follow her written instructions, not whatever some spouse or guardian claimed she wanted.
Margaret made me read through the whole thing, showing me where our names appeared and explaining what each section meant. We both signed the papers with Clifford as witness, and she locked the originals in her safe deposit box at the bank.
She seemed lighter after that, like she’d finally taken back the control Roger had stolen. When January ended and it was time to head back for spring semester, I packed my car with Lucille helping carry boxes down from my room.
Margaret stood in the driveway watching, her arms crossed against the cold but smiling. She hugged me tight before I got in the car and told me to drive safe and call when I got there.
I backed out slowly, watching her wave in the rearview mirror, and something clicked in my head during that two-hour drive back to campus. Roger had tried to destroy everything, tried to steal Margaret’s money and independence and leave me with nothing.
But instead, he’d shown us exactly how strong we were when we fought together. Margaret was healthy now—sharp and in control of her life again with legal protections that would keep her safe.
I was building the future I wanted, studying to help other people who needed someone to believe them and fight for them. We both knew we could handle whatever came next because we’d already survived the absolute worst thing that could happen and came out on the other side.
Still standing. Still fighting. Still.
