My Daughter-in-Law Screamed at 4 AM – Only to Discover I’d Locked Her Out of My House Forever.
The Closet and the Closet Secrets
But the worst was yet to come. One afternoon when I returned from the grocery store, I found Chloe in my bedroom. In my bedroom.
She was going through my closet, taking out my clothes. My dresses, the wine-colored one, the sand-colored, the pearl gray. She was putting them in bags.
When she saw me, she didn’t startle. She didn’t apologize. She just looked at me and said,
“Mom, we need space for our things. You have too many old clothes. I’m going to donate these.” Yes, and she held up a bag with my dresses inside. Dresses I had bought with my own money.
Dresses that held memories. One was dark green, I wore it the day Mark graduated. Another was peach-colored, my husband gave it to me for our anniversary.
And she was going to throw them away as if they were trash, as if my life was trash. Something inside me broke in that moment but I didn’t scream. I didn’t cry.
I just took the bag from her hands and said in a calm voice, “Chloe, these are my clothes and this is my room. Do not come in here again without my permission.” She blinked.
She looked at me as if I had just insulted her and then she left the room without saying a word. That night Mark came home furious. He told me I had made Chloe feel bad, that she was only trying to help, that I was being selfish.
Selfish, me? The one who had opened the doors of my home to them, the one who had given up my privacy, my peace, my space. And now it turned out I was the selfish one.
I went to sleep crying that night and for the first time in a long time, I felt completely alone. That in my own house I no longer had a voice or a vote and that this was just the beginning. The weeks passed and the situation worsened.
Chloe no longer asked for permission for anything. She simply did what she wanted. One day I arrived and she had turned the guest room into her personal dressing room.
The entire room filled with clothes, shoes, bags. She had removed the bed where Evelyn, my neighbor, slept when she came to visit me. She had thrown away the sheets I kept in there and when I asked her what had happened, she looked at me with those cold eyes and said,
“I just needed space for my things, Mom. You understand, right?” No, I didn’t understand. But I no longer knew how to defend myself without seeming like the villain.
The Appraisal and the Nursing Home Plan
Then the strange people started arriving. Chloe had started an online sales business and she was using my apartment as a warehouse. Boxes and more boxes stacked in the hallway, in the living room, even in the kitchen.
I was tripping over them every time I left my room and when I complained Mark told me, “Mom, it’s temporary. She’s building her future. Can’t you support her a little?” Support her?
I was already supporting her. I was giving her a roof over her head, but now I also had to put up with my house looking like a depot. With delivery drivers coming in and out at all hours, with strangers ringing my doorbell looking for packages.
And the worst part is that Chloe never thanked me, never. She acted as if all this was her right, as if I owed her something. One night I arrived tired after cleaning three floors of offices.
My knees hurt, my back hurt. I just wanted to get home, take a hot bath, and go to bed. But when I opened the door, I found music blasting.
There was a party in my living room, people I didn’t know drinking, laughing, smoking. The smoke hit my face as soon as I walked in. I froze in the entryway.
Chloe was in the center, a glass in her hand, laughing with her friends. When she saw me, she waved her hand as if nothing was wrong. “Oh, Mom, I didn’t know you’d be home so early! We’re celebrating. I made a lot of sales this week.”
And she kept laughing. No one greeted me, no one turned down the music, no one put out their cigarette. I felt invisible in my own house.
I was invisible. I locked myself in my room. I cried silently so they wouldn’t hear me and I listened to the party until 3:00 in the morning until they left, until there was finally silence.
The next day when I came out, I found my living room destroyed. Dirty glasses everywhere, stains on the sofa, a broken bottle on the floor. And Chloe was sleeping peacefully in her room.
She didn’t clean anything. So I cleaned, as always, because if I didn’t do it, no one would. And because I was already used to cleaning up other people’s messes.
I had cleaned other people’s offices for 40 years. Now I was cleaning up my daughter-in-law’s mess in my own home. I tried to talk to Mark again.
This time I sought him out at his job. I went all the way to his office. I needed him to listen to me without Chloe being present.
I told him everything. I told him I couldn’t take it anymore, that I needed my space, that I felt steamrolled in my own house. He listened to me, but when I finished speaking, he sighed deeply and told me,
“Mom, I know it’s hard, but we’re saving money. We just need a few more months. Please be patient.” A few more months. They had already been living with me for a year and a half and every day was worse.
But I nodded because he was my son, because I loved him, because I didn’t want to lose him. So I swallowed my pain once more and went home in silence. But then something happened that chilled my blood.
One afternoon I came home from the market with heavy bags. I climbed the stairs slowly because the elevator was broken and when I reached my floor, I heard voices in my apartment. Voices I didn’t recognize.
I opened the door carefully and froze. Chloe was with a man in a suit, elegant with a briefcase, and they were walking through my living room as if they were at an exhibition. The man was taking notes, looking at the walls, measuring with his eyes.
And then I heard the words that shattered me. “This apartment is a good size, excellent location. It could sell easily for around $120,000, maybe more.” Chloe nodded.
She smiled and said, “Perfect. You see, my mother-in-law is very old. She’s going to need to move somewhere with more care soon and we need our own space, you know.” My mother-in-law is very old.
As if I were a burden, as if I were a problem that needed to be solved. As if my life, my home, my refuge, were something to be gotten rid of. I dropped the bags.
The noise made them both turn around. Chloe turned pale for a second, just a second. Then she recovered that fake smile and said,
“Oh, Mom, you scared me! This is Mr. Davies. He’s a real estate agent. He was just, uh, giving me some advice, you know, for the future.” For the future. My future.
The future of my apartment. Mr. Davies looked at me uncomfortably, muttered something about a call he had to make, and left quickly. Chloe stood there, still smiling, as if she had done nothing wrong.
I asked her what she was doing. She answered me calmly, as if it were the most normal thing in the world. “Mom, I’m just planning. Mark and I have talked. You can’t live alone forever. This place is too big for you. It would be better to sell it and move you somewhere more comfortable, with nurses, with people your age.”
A place with nurses. A nursing home. She wanted to put me in a nursing home and sell my apartment.
The apartment I bought with my sweat, with my hands cracked from so much cleaning, with my sleepless nights working double shifts. And she wanted to take it from me. She wanted to kick me out of my own house and keep everything.
I told her to leave. I told her to get out of my apartment immediately. She laughed.
She laughed and told me, “Oh, Mom, don’t be dramatic. I’m just thinking of what’s best for you.” And she went to her room as if nothing, as if I had no right to be furious, as if my life was worth nothing.
