My Wife’s Brother’s New Girlfriend Mocked Me at Dinner – The Whole Family Laughed Until I Revealed the Truth…
The Underestimated Consultant
The first 20 minutes of dinner passed with the usual Patterson family conversation. Richard talked about sales numbers at the dealerships.
Victoria discussed the upcoming charity auction she was organizing. Brandon bragged about some big sale he’d made that week.
Jessica talked about her work as an interior designer. Nobody asked me about my business.
That was normal. The Pattersons had a way of making you feel like you weren’t quite worth their attention unless you were serving them in some way.
Then Sarah started.
“So Tyler,” she said cutting into her salmon with precise movements, “Jessica mentioned you run some kind of consulting business.”
“I do,” I said. “Logistics consulting. We help companies optimize their supply chains and distribution networks.”
She nodded slowly like I just told her I collected bottle caps for a living.
“That sounds interesting. So like you tell truck drivers where to go?”
Brandon laughed. Jessica shot me an apologetic look but didn’t say anything.
“Not exactly,” I said evenly. “We analyze entire logistical operations and develop strategies to reduce costs and improve efficiency. It’s fairly complex work involving data analysis, network modeling, and strategic planning.”
Sarah took a sip of her wine, smirking slightly.
“Right, right. My mistake. So you’re like a middle manager but for trucks?”
Richard chuckled. Victoria smiled behind her wine glass.
Jessica was studying her plate like it contained the secrets of the universe. I felt the familiar tightness in my chest that always came when the Pattersons decided to remind me I wasn’t really one of them.
But I’d learned over 8 years to just take it. Fighting back never worked; it just made things worse.
“Something like that,” I said quietly.
And that was my mistake. The moment I backed down Sarah sensed weakness.
The Predatory Conversation
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“Brandon tells me you grew up in Hartford,” Sarah continued. There was something predatory in her tone now.
“That must have been tough. I mean I’ve driven through there a few times, not exactly the nicest area.”
“It wasn’t bad,” I said. “Good people, strong community.”
“Oh I’m sure,” Sarah said with false sympathy. “Everyone’s doing their best with what they have right? I mean not everyone can afford private schools and summer homes in the Hamptons. That’s what makes America great, you know? People from all backgrounds can succeed.”
The table went quiet. Even Brandon looked slightly uncomfortable though he was still smiling.
“Tyler’s done very well for himself,” Jessica finally spoke up. Her voice was small.
“Oh absolutely,” Sarah agreed enthusiastically. “I mean to go from that kind of background to running your own little business, that’s the American dream right there. Very impressive little business.”
The words hung in the air like smoke. I looked around the table.
Richard was concentrating very hard on his food. Victoria was refilling her wine glass.
Brandon was trying not to laugh. And Jessica was sitting there silent, letting this stranger insult her husband in her parents’ home.
“We should probably talk about something else,” I said quietly.
“Why?” Sarah asked with false innocence. “I think it’s fascinating. I love hearing success stories from people who’ve overcome adversity. It’s so inspiring.”
She wasn’t even being subtle about it anymore. Every word was calculated to remind me that I wasn’t good enough, that I didn’t belong, that I was lucky to be sitting at this table with these people who were so much better than me.
“Sarah’s right,” Brandon said finally joining in. “Tyler’s come a long way. Remember when we first met him, Dad? He was driving that old Honda with the dent in the door.”
Richard smiled.
“I do remember that. What year was that car Tyler, 95, 96?”
“97,” I said. “Still running?” Sarah asked sweetly.
“I sold it years ago.”
“Oh that’s good. I mean once you start making real money you can afford to upgrade these things.”
Real money. Like the seven-figure income I’d pulled in last year wasn’t real enough.
Victoria decided to join the fun.
“Tyler’s always been very practical about money, very careful with spending. I suppose that comes from growing up without much.”
I felt my jaw tighten. Eight years of this.
Eight years of subtle digs and backhanded compliments and being made to feel like I should be grateful they let me marry their daughter.
