“No Extra Food,” My Daughter-in-Law Told Me – Then Served Her Family Lobster and Fine Drinks Like Royalty.
“Exquisite,” She murmured, delicately dabbing the corners of her mouth with her napkin. “Absolutely exquisite. This place never disappoints.”
Her mother nodded enthusiastically. “It’s the best restaurant in the city, without a doubt. So exclusive, so refined.”
Michael also began to eat, though I noticed he avoided looking at me. He kept his eyes fixed on his plate, concentrating on breaking apart the lobster as if it were the most important task in the world.
Coward. My son, the man I raised to be brave, to stand up for what’s right, had become a coward.
I remained seated, hands in my lap, observing. My glass of water was still there, untouched.
I didn’t even feel like drinking it. It wasn’t about thirst; it was about dignity.
And in that moment, I felt like they had ripped every last ounce of it from me. Marlene’s father, a heavy-set man with a gray mustache and an air of superiority, finally spoke.
“Michael, your mother is very quiet. Has she always been like this?” He spoke about me as if I weren’t there, as if I were a topic of conversation and not a real person sitting less than three feet away.
Michael swallowed his bite before answering. “Mom has always been simple, humble, you know. She comes from a different generation.”
“Humble,” Marlene repeated, and there was something venomous in the way she pronounced that word. “Yes, definitely humble.”
I wanted to say something. I wanted to scream at them that humble didn’t mean invisible, that simple wasn’t a synonym for stupid.
But I held back because something inside me told me to wait, to observe, to let them keep digging their own grave. Marlene’s mother poured herself more wine; the bottle was already half empty.
“These must be such difficult times for people your age, Helen. With no stable income, not enough savings… it’s a shame the older generation didn’t know how to plan for their future better.” There it was—the first direct blow disguised as concern.
But it was a blow nonetheless, implying that I was a burden, that I was poor, that I hadn’t done anything with my life. “Mom gets by just fine,” Michael said.
But his tone was defensive, weak, as if he didn’t believe what he was saying himself. “Of course, of course,” Marlene replied quickly, but her smile said the opposite. “We all do what we can with what we have, although, well, some of us have more than others.”
Silence. A silence so thick you could cut it with a knife.
No one defended me. No one said, “Hey, that was out of line.” No one.
Setting Boundaries and Breaking Hearts
Marlene continued eating, now with more enthusiasm. Between bites, she started talking about her life, her accomplishments, about everything she had achieved, as if she needed to constantly highlight the difference between her and me.
“We just closed on the new condo,” She announced, looking at her parents with pride. “Three bedrooms, park view, 12th floor. It cost $450,000, but Michael and I decided it was worth the investment.”
Her father raised his glass. “Let’s toast to that. To success, to the future.”
Everyone raised their glasses except me, of course. I didn’t have a glass, just my glass of water, which now seemed to mock me with its transparency.
“And the best part,” Marlene continued. “Is that we’ll finally have the space we always wanted. No interruptions, no unexpected visits, no having to worry about accommodating people who just show up unannounced.”
She looked directly at me when she said that. Directly into my eyes.
She wanted me to know she was talking about me, that she was telling me, without saying it explicitly, that I was no longer welcome in their lives. Michael coughed uncomfortably.
“Marlene, I don’t think that’s necessary.” “Necessary? What?” She interrupted him with that fake sweetness she had mastered. “I’m just sharing our good news. Is there a problem with that?”
“None,” He replied, looking down again. And that’s when I understood.
My son wasn’t just a coward; he was an accomplice. He had chosen his side a long time ago, and that side didn’t include me.
The waiter returned to clear some empty plates. He glanced at me as if wondering why I was still sitting there with nothing.
I felt sorry for him. He had probably seen a thousand awkward scenes in this restaurant, but this one had to be in the top five.
“Would you like dessert?” He asked in a professional voice. “Of course,” Marlene replied immediately. “Bring your best option for four.”
Again, four. Not five. Four.
The waiter nodded and walked away. I was still there like a ghost, like someone who had been erased from the equation but who, for some cruel reason, still occupied space in the chair.
Marlene’s mother leaned forward, looking at me with a mix of curiosity and condescension. “Helen, dear, what do you do for work currently? Or are you already retired?”
It was a trap. I knew it immediately.
If I said I was retired, it would confirm their narrative that I was an old woman with no purpose. If I said I worked, they would probably mock the kind of work I did.
But before I could answer, Marlene spoke for me. “Helen has done a little bit of everything. Cleaning, cooking, that sort of thing. Honest work, nothing to be ashamed of, of course.”
The way she said “honest work” sounded like the exact opposite. It sounded like contempt, like superiority, like “Thank God I never had to lower myself to that.”
“Admirable,” Marlene’s father said, but his tone was condescending. “Hard work should always be respected, though of course, we made sure Marlene had every opportunity so she wouldn’t have to go through that.”
I nodded slowly. I said nothing.
I just nodded because every word that came out of their mouths was just another reason to wait, to let them keep talking, to let them feel secure on their pedestal. Michael finally looked at me for a second.
I saw something in his eyes—guilt, shame? I’m not sure, but it disappeared as quickly as it appeared.
“Mom,” He said softly. “Are you okay? You’re very quiet.”
“I’m perfectly fine,” I replied calmly. “I’m just observing.”
Marlene let out a short laugh. “Observing? How interesting.”
She turned to her mother. “See? I told you she was quiet.”
The desserts arrived: four plates of tiramisu with edible gold flakes. Because, of course, even the dessert had to be ostentatious.
While they devoured their desserts, I was still there, motionless, with my glass of water that I hadn’t even touched. Condensation had formed a small puddle around the base.
I watched the drops slide down the glass, slow like tears I wasn’t going to shed. I wouldn’t give them that pleasure.
Marlene wiped her mouth with her napkin and sighed, satisfied. “This is definitely my favorite restaurant. The quality is unmatched. Of course, it’s not for everyone’s budget.”
Another jab. Another stab disguised as a casual comment.
I wondered how many more would come before this torture ended. Her father ordered a cognac.
Michael ordered a whiskey. The women ordered more wine.
I was still with my water. No one offered me anything else.
No one asked if I wanted at least a coffee. It was as if they had collectively decided that I didn’t even deserve basic courtesies.
“Michael,” Said Marlene’s father, lighting a cigar that the waiter had brought him. “Your wife told us you’re considering that promotion at the company. That would mean more responsibilities, right?”
