Poor People Don’t Go To Fancy Places. YOU Stay Home!’ My Daughter-In-Law Said…

“My daughter has many flaws, Mrs. Davis, and I bear part of the blame. We raised her with too many comforts; we gave her everything without teaching her the value of anything.”

“Why are you telling me this?”

I asked.

“Because I want you to know that not everyone in my family is like her. Because I want to apologize for the harm my daughter has caused you.”

Sonia looked me directly in the eyes.

“And because I want to help you.”

“I don’t need your help,”

I said.

“I know. Mr. Thompson told me you rejected Robert’s offer to pay everything off, that you insisted your son pay his own debts. That speaks very well of you.”

“Mr. Thompson told you?”

I asked.

“Robert was my brother, Mrs. Davis. I know everything that happened, and I agree with what you did.”

Robert was her brother. The world suddenly felt very small.

“When Robert told me what Michael had done, I felt ashamed. Because my daughter was part of that, because she knew and did nothing to stop it.”

“Worse yet, she encouraged it,”

she added.

“She encouraged it?”

I asked.

Sonia nodded.

“Kate has always been ambitious. She has always wanted more than she has, and when she married Michael, she thought she had found someone who could give her the life she wanted.”

“But Michael doesn’t have as much money as she believed, so they started living on credit, on appearances, on lies.”

“And I was an easy source of money,”

I remarked.

“Exactly. And when you no longer had more to give, he resorted to fraud.”

Sonia put her cup on the table.

“But there is something else you need to know. Something even Mr. Thompson doesn’t know yet.”

My heart started beating faster.

“What?”

“Kate is planning to divorce Michael. She already spoke with a lawyer. She wants to keep everything they can before the foreclosures start.”

“She wants to leave him with nothing and come out clean from this situation,”

she explained.

The words hit me like a train. Kate was abandoning Michael and leaving him alone in this disaster after pushing him to cause it.

“When?”

I asked.

“Soon, very soon. She is just waiting for the right moment—the moment when she can cause the most damage.”

“Why are you telling me this?”

I asked.

“Because you are his mother and despite everything he has done to you, I know you still love him. And I thought you should know.”

Sonia leaned forward.

“Also because I want to propose something to you.”

“What kind of proposal?”

“My husband and I will pay Michael’s debt—the full $25,000—but with conditions.”

“I don’t want your charity,”

I said.

“It isn’t charity; it is an investment. An investment in Michael learning his lesson without Kate taking everything.”

Sonia took an envelope out of her purse.

“We pay the debt. Michael signs a document where he commits to repaying us that money in three years with interest, and you maintain control of everything until it is paid.”

“And what do you gain from this?”

I asked.

“We gain time. Time for Michael to understand his mistakes. Time for him to get away from my daughter before she destroys him completely.”

Sonia pushed the envelope toward me.

“And you gain your house free of debt and the possibility of recovering your son, if you still want to do so.”

I took the envelope. Inside was a check for $25,000 and legal documents—everything prepared and ready to sign.

“Why are you doing this? Why help your daughter’s husband if you know they are going to divorce?”

I asked.

“Because my brother, Robert, taught me something before dying. He told me that money without dignity is worth nothing.”

“And that sometimes doing the right thing costs money, but it is worth it,”

she added.

Sonia stood up.

“Think about it, Mrs. Davis. You don’t have to decide now, but the offer is on the table.”

She walked me to the door. Before I left, she took my hand.

“One more thing. When all this ends, when Kate leaves, Michael is going to need someone.”

“He is going to be alone, destroyed, and only you can decide if you want to be there for him or if you prefer to let him face the consequences alone,”

she concluded.

I left that house with the envelope in my purse and a thousand thoughts in my head.

I drove back to my house in silence, thinking, calculating, and feeling.

When I got home, I took out the envelope and put it on the table. I looked at it for hours.

It was the check, the documents, and the easy solution to this whole problem. But none of this was about easy; it was about right.

And I still didn’t know what the right thing to do was.

I spent all of Saturday night sleepless. The envelope with the $25,000 check was on my kitchen table.

I looked at it over and over, trying to understand what was right. I was trying to separate what my heart wanted from what my mind knew I should do.

Sunday morning, I made a decision and called Mr. Thompson.

“Mr. Thompson, I need you to come to my house today, if possible.”

“Did something happen, Mrs. Davis?”

he asked.

“Yes, something happened, and I need your advice.”

Mr. Thompson arrived an hour later. I showed him the envelope and told him about my conversation with Sonia.

He read the documents carefully. His expression was serious.

“It is a good offer, legally solid. You would be debt-free immediately.”

“But?”

I asked.

“But I must be sure why I accept it. Do I accept it because I want to help Michael or because I want him to learn the lesson in the least painful way?”

The question hit me because I wasn’t sure of the answer.

“I don’t know. Honestly, I don’t know.”

Mr. Thompson sat across from me.

“Mrs. Davis, what your son did was terrible, but he is going to pay the consequences one way or another.”

“The question is, do you want to be part of his learning process, or do you want to walk away and let him fall alone?”

“I’m his mother,”

I said.

“Being a mother doesn’t mean being responsible for his mistakes, nor does it mean you have to rescue him always.”

His words were harsh but true. All my life I had rescued Michael from his bad grades, his bad decisions, and his debts.

I had always been there to catch him before he fell, and maybe that was part of the problem.

“What would you do in my place?”

I asked.

Mr. Thompson sighed.

“I would accept the offer, but not for Michael. For you.”

“Because you deserve to live in peace without debts hanging over your head, without having to worry about losing your house,”

he added.

He was right. My house, my security—that was the most important thing.

Not Michael, not Kate—me.

“Okay, I accept,”

I said.

Mr. Thompson nodded.

“Then we need to organize a meeting with Michael and with Sonia to sign all the documents and make everything clear.”

“When?”

I asked.

“How about tomorrow, Monday afternoon, in my office? Neutral and professional.”

“Okay.”

Mr. Thompson stood up.

“I will notify all parties. And Mrs. Davis, prepare yourself. Michael is not going to be happy when he discovers Kate’s parents are paying his debt.”

After Mr. Thompson left, I called Susan. I needed to talk to someone who truly knew me.