“Your Husband Just Withdrew Everything,” the Bank Told Me. I Was Stunned – He Had Passed Hours Earlier
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“Why are you giving these to me?” Diana asked.
“Because they’re yours. And because I don’t need them anymore.”
I paused.
“Diana, I’m not going to pretend this doesn’t hurt. Richard and I spent most of our lives together. But somewhere along the way, we stopped being partners and started being strangers sharing a house. I didn’t see it happening, or maybe I saw it and chose to ignore it. Either way, we failed each other long before you came into the picture.”
“That doesn’t absolve me,” Diana said quietly.
“No, it doesn’t. But it does put things in perspective.”
I looked at her directly.
“You saved Richard’s life. You risked your career, possibly your freedom, to protect him from Paul. You could have walked away, but you didn’t. That counts for something.”
Diana’s eyes filled with tears.
“What happens now? Between you and Richard?”
“We’re divorcing. The paperwork is already filed. The settlement is fair: the house stays mine, we split the other assets evenly, and Richard gets the cabin once it’s rebuilt.”
I smiled without humor.
“Turns out, when you take away the theft and deception, we actually have enough for both of us to start over.”
“And you’re really okay with this?”
Was I okay?
No, but I was surviving.
I was moving forward.
“I’m getting there,” I said honestly.
“Some days are harder than others. But Diana, here’s what I need you to understand: Richard is your responsibility now. All of him—the good parts, and the flawed parts, and the selfish parts. You wanted a life with him, now you have it. But don’t expect me to clean up his messes or bail him out when things get difficult.”
“I wouldn’t ask you to.”
“Good.”
I stood.
“I hope you two are happy. I genuinely do. Not because I’m a saint, but because I’m tired of carrying anger. It’s too heavy, and I have better things to do with the rest of my life.”
I walked away before she could respond, leaving the letters on the bench behind me.
A New Definition of Freedom
Caroline was waiting in the parking lot.
“How do you feel?”
“Lighter,” I said.
And it was true.
Some burden I’d been carrying for months, maybe years, had lifted.
We drove back to my house—my house.
I’d stopped thinking of it as “our house” weeks ago.
The divorce would be final in a few months, and then it would be legally, officially mine.
Jessica’s car was in the driveway.
We’d arranged for her to bring the children over once a week for dinner.
The visits were awkward but necessary.
Tyler and Emma deserved to know their grandmother, and Jessica needed the support.
“Grandma!”
Emma ran up to hug me as I got out of the car.
“We made you pictures at school!”
“Did you? I can’t wait to see them.”
Tyler hung back, more reserved.
At nine, he understood more than his sister about what had happened.
He knew his father was in prison; he knew his family had been destroyed.
“Hey buddy,” I said, kneeling down to his level.
“How are you doing?”
“Okay,” he mumbled.
Then, quieter:
“Dad called yesterday from jail.”
My heart clenched.
“What did he say?”
“He said he was sorry. He said he made mistakes, and he hopes someday I’ll forgive him.”
Tyler looked at me with eyes too old for his face.
“Do I have to forgive him, Grandma?”
I thought about easy platitudes, about the things adults tell children to make them feel better.
But Tyler deserved the truth.
“No,” I said.
“You don’t have to forgive him. Maybe someday you will, maybe you won’t. But right now, you’re allowed to feel however you feel—angry, sad, confused… all of it. And none of those feelings make you a bad person.”
“Mom says I should pray for him.”
“That’s between you and your mom. But Tyler, here’s what I know: your father made choices—bad choices—and now he’s facing consequences. That’s not your fault. It’s not your responsibility to fix. Your job is to be a kid: to do well in school, to take care of your sister. Can you do that?”
He nodded, and I saw some of the tension leave his small shoulders.
Inside, I made dinner—nothing fancy, just spaghetti and garlic bread—and we ate at the kitchen table.
Caroline told funny stories about her law practice.
Emma chattered about her teacher and her friends.
Tyler was quiet but ate two helpings.
Jessica helped me clean up afterward, the two of us working in careful silence.
“The District Attorney’s office called,” she said finally.
“They want me to testify at another hearing. Something about Paul appealing his sentence. Will you do it?”
“Yes.”
She dried a plate with mechanical precision.
“My therapist says testifying is part of taking responsibility for my choices. That I enabled Paul, even if I didn’t commit the crimes myself.”
“Your therapist is right.”
Jessica set down the plate.
“Kathy, I need to ask you something. The trust fund you set up for the kids… the one for their education… it’s too much. It’s over half a million dollars.”
“It’s exactly enough,” I said.
“Tyler and Emma didn’t choose their father. They shouldn’t suffer because of him. This way, they can go to good colleges, start their adult lives without debt. It’s not charity, Jessica. It’s family.”
“But after everything Paul did to you—”
“Paul is in prison,” I said firmly.
“Tyler and Emma are innocent. There’s a difference.”
After they left, Caroline and I sat on the back porch wrapped in blankets, watching the stars emerge.
The night was clear and cold—the kind of cold that feels clarifying.
“What are you going to do now, Mom?” Caroline asked.
“Really do? I mean, now that all the legal stuff is settling.”
I’d been thinking about that question for weeks.
What does a 67-year-old woman do when her entire life has been dismantled and rebuilt?
“I’m going to live,” I said simply.
“I’m going to travel. Maybe to Ireland, maybe to Italy—places Richard never wanted to go. I’m going to take art classes at the community center. I’m going to spend time with you and the grandchildren. I’m going to figure out who Kathy Cuban is when she’s not someone’s wife or someone’s victim.”
“That sounds like a good plan.”
“It’s not really a plan. It’s more like permission.”
We sat in comfortable silence, and I thought about everything that had happened.
Three months ago, I’d been a widow, or thought I was—a woman whose life had been stolen, whose son had betrayed her, whose husband had deceived her.
Now I was something else entirely: a survivor, a fighter, a woman who’d looked at the wreckage of her life and decided to build something new from the pieces.
Was I healed?
No.
Did I still have hard days when the grief and anger threatened to overwhelm me?
Absolutely.
But I was here, in my house, with my daughter, planning a future I’d never imagined.
And that was more than enough.
The Prison Visit
Six months after Paul’s sentencing, I did something I’d been planning for weeks.
I drove to the prison where he was being held.
I hadn’t told anyone—not Caroline, not Thomas, not Jessica.
This was something I needed to do alone.
The visiting room was institutional and depressing, filled with plastic chairs and tables bolted to the floor.
Paul was brought in wearing prison blues, his hair shorter, his face harder.
He looked older than 38, worn down by the reality of his choices.
“Mom,” he said, sitting down across from me.
“I didn’t think you’d come.”
“I almost didn’t.”
We sat in silence for a moment, then Paul said:
“I’ve been in therapy. Court-ordered, but still. Dr. Morrison says I have Narcissistic Personality Disorder. That I was unable to see past my own needs, my own perspective. She says that’s not an excuse, but it’s an explanation.”
“Is it helping? The therapy?”
“I don’t know. Maybe. I’m starting to see things differently. Starting to understand what I did. Really understand it.”
He looked at his hands.
“I tried to kill Dad. I stole from you. I destroyed our family. And for what? Money that wouldn’t have even covered my debts.”
“You destroyed our family long before the poisoning,” I said quietly.
“When you started lying. When you chose manipulation over honesty. When you decided your needs mattered more than anyone else’s.”
“I know.”
He looked up at me, and I saw tears in his eyes.
